Thursday, June 30, 2022

Day 7. Make time for IRL connections

Coffee date, anyone?
Slow Your Scroll Challenge

DAY 7 OF 10

Make time for IRL connections

Social media connects us with other people, which is one of our basic needs as humans. During these last 2 years when in-person hangouts became a tough activity, social media served as an important space for socializing. Can you imagine what it would have been like to social distance without social media?

Research even suggests that the way our brains process online friendships may not be much different from offline friendships. Indeed, social media connections can add value to our lives in all sorts of ways, including to help us:

  • feel less alone in our struggles
  • get helpful information or good advice
  • reach healthy goals
  • share in the same interests
  • gain a deeper sense of belonging

Make friends — on and offline

While online connections have been helpful during COVID-19, new findings from the Centers from Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) suggest virtual socializing may not be enough. The report found that 44 percent of teens in the United States feel persistently sad and hopeless, with a lack of socialization as a top contributing factor.

You don't have to look far to find examples of why offline connections are critical for our mental health:

  • One study found that people with IRL social support, as opposed to online support, felt less depressed, anxious, and socially isolated.
  • In a study of 11,000 adults ages 50 and older, those who regularly spent time with friends and family had the lowest risk of depressive symptoms two years later than participants who had less frequent contact.
  • Other research has found that having strong friendships can help people better cope with stress and possibly reduce future stressors.

Today's challenge: Take it offline

Let's focus on bolstering your bonds with your offline community. Check your calendar and schedule some quality time with friends, relatives, or colleagues. If COVID-19 is a concern for you, plan to meet up outdoors or connect through an old-fashioned phone call.

If you have kids, encourage them to spend time with a friend as well.

Think about activities you enjoy or that sound fun. You might meet up for:

  • coffee or tea
  • a walk or hike
  • yoga class
  • a park playdate with the kids

Tomorrow, we'll be talking about the importance of having a passion — or many.

Until tomorrow,
The Healthline Team

Read These Next

View in browser
 
Our services, content, and products are for informational purposes only. Healthline Media does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. See additional disclaimer information.
 
Privacy Policy   |   Unsubscribe
 
© 2022 Healthline Media
660 3rd Street, San Francisco, CA 94107

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

30 Grounding Techniques to Quiet Distressing Thoughts

Grounding exercises can help you manage distressing thoughts and flashbacks in the moment. Here are 30 techniques to add to your emotional toolbox.
 
30 Grounding Techniques to Quiet Distressing Thoughts
Read on  →
How to Access an Abortion in Each State
 
Read on  →
It Hits Different: How Depression Affects the Brain
 
READ MORE  →
32 Mindfulness Activities to Find Calm at Any Age
 
Read on  →
How To Choose a Counselor vs. Therapist
 
Read on  →
Can You Train Your Brain to Get a Photographic Memory?
 
Read on  →
More top Reads
 
Microdosing with Netflix and FX Star Theo Rossi
 
Listen on Google Podcasts   Listen on Apple Podcasts  
LISTEN ON Spotify
 
GET STARTED  →
 
Start a custom weight loss program
 
Discover Bezzy Depression
 
 
 
LEARN MORE  
 
 
fb   tt   insta
View in browser

Did a friend send you this email? Subscribe here.
To see all newsletters, click here.

Privacy   |   Unsubscribe

© 2022 Healthline Media
660 3rd Street, San Francisco, CA 94107

Day 6. Master the art of doing nothing

There's no time like the present.
Slow Your Scroll Challenge

DAY 6 OF 10

Master the art of doing nothing

Can you remember the last time you spent 5 minutes alone with your thoughts? Unless you practice meditation, it's probably been a while. Doing nothing can feel pretty uncomfortable, after all. And scrolling is a delicious escape.

But what if we told you that this desire to be distracted is ultimately robbing you of a deeper, and more fulfilling life?

Mindfulness may be the answer to mindless scrolling

Mindfulness is the practice of shifting your attention to the present moment, over and over again. There are countless techniques and methods to help you do this, but all the styles of mindfulness share a common goal: to help you feel more in control of the pace, content, and impact of your thoughts on your well-being.

Research has found that this core principle of mindfulness, called "present moment of awareness," enhances our ability to cope with stress. Some other benefits of mindfulness include:

  • increased self-compassion
  • less emotional reactivity
  • a better ability to control your behavior
  • decreased rumination

How mindfulness can help you scroll less

One of the core skills you can gain through meditating and mindfulness is better control over how you react to thoughts and emotions. This enhanced ability to manage your behaviors and habits can be applied to how much time you spend on social media.

For example, if you have a hard time not looking at social media throughout the workday, mindfulness can help you train your focus. By being mindful of each given moment, you can start to notice when your brain wants to pick up your phone. And instead of immediately giving in like usual, you can take a small pause and choose not to engage.

We won't pretend this is easy. The instant gratification of scrolling is a lot more enticing than investing in the longer-term payoff promised by mindfulness. But research shows that spending too much time engaging with "pleasure-only" activities, like social media, can ultimately have negative effects on your psychological health.

Today's challenge: Check in with your surroundings

Next time you're waiting in line somewhere, resist the urge to reach for your phone. Instead, use the simple practice below to reconnect with your surroundings.

Take a few moments to name the following:

  • 5 things you can see
  • 4 things you can feel
  • 3 things you can hear
  • 2 things you can smell
  • 1 thing you can taste

Until tomorrow,
The Healthline Team

Read These Next

View in browser
 
Our services, content, and products are for informational purposes only. Healthline Media does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. See additional disclaimer information.
 
Privacy Policy   |   Unsubscribe
 
© 2022 Healthline Media
660 3rd Street, San Francisco, CA 94107